41761627_l dementia care – 123RF Stock Photo Photo by 123RF Stock Photo /123RF Stock PhotoArticle contentWhen a friend is diagnosed with dementia, it is natural to feel uncertain about how to respond. You might wonder what to say, how to act, or worry about doing the wrong thing. It is hard to watch someone you care about experience changes in memory, behaviour, and daily life, but one of the most meaningful things you can do is choose to be there. Your ongoing presence and support can make a significant difference in their quality of life.THIS CONTENT IS RESERVED FOR SUBSCRIBERS ONLY.Subscribe now to access this story and more:Unlimited access to the website and appExclusive access to premium content, newsletters and podcastsFull access to the e-Edition app, an electronic replica of the print edition that you can share, download and comment onEnjoy insights and behind-the-scenes analysis from our award-winning journalistsSupport local journalists and the next generation of journalistsSUBSCRIBE TO UNLOCK MORE ARTICLES.Subscribe or sign in to your account to continue your reading experience.Unlimited access to the website and appExclusive access to premium content, newsletters and podcastsFull access to the e-Edition app, an electronic replica of the print edition that you can share, download and comment onEnjoy insights and behind-the-scenes analysis from our award-winning journalistsSupport local journalists and the next generation of journalistsRegister to unlock more articles.Create an account or sign in to continue your reading experience.Access additional stories every monthShare your thoughts and join the conversation in our commenting communityGet email updates from your favourite authorsSign In or Create an AccountorArticle contentArticle contentDementia is often an unpredictable and deeply personal journey. No two experiences are exactly alike, and it often brings emotional highs and lows. For many living with dementia, especially in rural communities across Cape Breton, the experience can feel isolating.Article contentArticle contentIt’s important to not make assumptions about how the person living with dementia is feeling, but to ask them. Finding a way to validate frustrations and understand their reality goes a long way while making connections and maintaining your friendship.Article content Some tips to assist a friend with Alzheimer’s disease.Article contentCOMMUNICATION IS MEANINGFULArticle contentEducating yourself about dementia is a meaningful first step. To help with this, the Alzheimer Society provides education sessions for many different groups in various communities across Cape Breton. By attending an education session, you can gain a better understanding of what your friend is experiencing and ask questions.Article contentArticle contentCommunication might begin to change, but it can still be meaningful. Your friend may find it harder to follow conversations or express themselves. To support them, try simplifying your language, speaking slowly and clearly, focusing on one idea at a time. Using familiar names and places can help support conversations. If your friend repeats themselves or struggles to find the right words, try to respond without correcting or rushing them. Actions like this can go a long way in showing that you care and accept them as they are.Article contentSTAY CONNECTEDArticle contentMaking time to visit is an impactful way to stay connected. Regular visits can help reduce feelings of loneliness and remind your friend that they are valued and loved. Bring along things they enjoy such as a favourite snack or a photo album to help with that connection and bring joy.Article contentWe all have activities that we love. Extending an invitation and including them in plans helps to keep them socially connected. Plan your visit or outing for a time of day when they might be most comfortable and at their best.
SHEALENE BARRETT: Supporting a friend with dementia: How to be there when it matters most
